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Building a really solid container for change takes time. By the time couples decide to get the support they need in their relationship there’s often an urgency in the air. […]

Forging The Path to a Deeper, More Harmonious Relationship  Behind the Scenes of Couple’s Work Given the natural pressures of work, family, and personal growth, it’s easy for couples to [...]

Creating something of beauty and high integrity requires work. When I’m not “in session” with therapeutic couples work, I sometimes like to create long, flowing beaded angel-wing earrings. Even [...]

What is Guided Couples Work + How is it Different than Couples Counseling? For over a decade, I retained a designation of “Registered Psychotherapist” in order to do formal couples […]

(A RESPONSE TO The Emerald podcast: The Revolution Will Not Be Psychologized.) Viewing Life as Anima: Antidote to Therapy-Speak in Popular Culture?   ..our notions condition the nature of our [...]

A Compass, Guide, and Survival Kit for Mastering Attachment Styles… in the Wild Even in a world of chaos and uncertainty, one thing I know for certain is that attachment […]

A silver lining of “the great pause”? We can connect at a distance. The past year plus of zoom life has a silver lining: It taught us that it’s at […]

Judgement versus discernment Finding the truth in observations of self and partner Sometimes it’s hard to know what to do if you catch yourself judging or being judged, especially if […]

    Why am I unhappy? Will I be single forever? Am I depressed? Will my business ever take off? When does ‘you’ll get over it,’ begin? Why does it […]

Honesty vs. Brutal Honesty  There is a lot of talk these days about honesty. I sometimes hear teachers say, “above all, speak your truth” or “secrets are the enemy of […]