Take Matters Into Your Own Hands
We Are Relational Beings.
Our Relationships Shape Us, Define Us,
Impact Us, Transform Us.
Successful relationships lead to a fulfilling life. Our kids, partners, siblings and parents, our friendships, colleagueships, and our communities offer us belonging, meaning, growth, fun, and play. It is simultaneously true that we are injured in relationship over and over again. And those relationship wounds impact how we show up in relationship.
Amazingly, we have spent out lives creating and navigating relationships without any formal training in how to do it well. We kinda muddle through, learning from what worked and what didn’t and overall we do okay. But okay isn’t quite adequate if what we desire is a deeply satisfying life. And so, in order to have excellent relationships we need to increase our capacity to create and maintain healthy, win-win relationships. Relationship Matters, is here to help you become more skillful and adept at doing relationship well.
We Heal In Relationship
RELATIONSHIP WITH SELF
Our relationship with ourself is the foundation for all other relationships. Healthy selfhood is about maintaining authenticity while adapting to the natural movement of our relationships. Individual therapy helps us look at ourselves from new perspectives so that we can become more healed, more fortified and more skillful. Deep, profound transformation comes from knowing and accepting ourselves fully. Up-level your relationships with your partner, children or your livelihood by working on you.
RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS
There is no work more dynamic than the co-exploration of what arises in relationship in real time. This is couples work. If we are to have sustainable, mutually satisfying partnership we must heal our wounds and grow in relationship, together. Successful coupes engage in curious, empathic, emotionally honest communication. Couples therapy can help you both show up for the important conversations productively.
RELATIONSHIP WITH COMMUNITY
By virtue of existing we are in relationship with everyone and everything that exists in the world. By embracing this and engaging open-heartedly with our community, we can find belonging and see ourselves more fully. Group work allows us to learn from, heal with, and grow alongside our fellow travelers.
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”
LET’S TALK ABOUT WHAT MATTERS
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING
“You helped remind that there is so much in life that does satisfy and satiate me and my soul… You opened a door I lost the handle to, the heart and spirit behind your eyes was unexpected. Thank you for listening and hearing me today and always. I’m forever appreciative of your time, directness and empathy.”
~ Longmont Client, Male, 40 yrs old. Single.
“I have worked with Lesley for 8 years off and on. She has seen me at my worst and helped me to get to my best. I am now married and expecting my first child in May. I would NOT be where I am today without her help”.
~ Boulder Client, Female, 28 years old. In a Relationship.